All posts tagged: heartbreak

Male Abuse beyond sodomy/molestation

Whenever many people hear about abuse of boys and men, they simply think of the times they read news items about young boys being molested by older men or how men have been abused by others. This, however, isn’t all there is to the subject. I dare say a lot of guys have been abused and don’t even know it. This is because of their narrow perception of what abuse is. The saddest part about this side of male abuse I will like to share is, that many men are told to be strong and act tough about a lot of things they go through. From childhood, they are taught to be gangster, tough, hard, you name it. In some cases, some are ‘‘praised’’ even whiles being abused. Let me share some personal experiences with you, so you better understand what I mean.

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Moving on with God

I will never forget the fall of 2014. Alone in my car and heart broken I turned up Chris Brown’s song “X” as I drove out of a friend’s house. I was angry and felt I had had enough of everything a certain girl was […]

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Unquenchable vengeance

At the climax of any emotional hurt—the point where we can no longer bear the memories of pain that a person has placed us through—twisted fantasies and dark vengeful thoughts erupt within our minds. Alone by ourselves, we visualise the gratification we would receive by […]

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We don’t talk anymore

Over the years I have watched many relationships suffer because of two words,”poor communication.” This is simply when both parties harbour questions, hurts and pains in their hearts and act on them without ever sitting with their spouses to tell them about the things eating […]

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Relationship Vultures

Every relationship comes with it ups and downs: there are the high points and the low points, the moments of joy and the moments of pain, the moments of love and the moments where hatred briefly runs its course. Meeting and spending time with a […]

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Demasking

It was about four o’clock pm, school was over and everyone was heading home. It was supposed to be a typical stress free day. That, however, changed when a sizzling blow to my gut sent me falling down on my knees. As I lay helplessly on the […]

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Love Lost

The topic of heartbreaks is not a strange one, but rather, one many people are familiar with. Some, unfortunately, are very familiar with it. Inasmuch as many of us will like to deny this, we all at a point in our lives, have been heartbroken […]

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